One thing’s for sure. It’s not what we expected …

Iris was unexpected.

Over our first year in an open relationship, my husband, Flick, and I had found a groove. We’d each figured out the kinds and styles of relationships we were looking for, and met some amazing partners. Then, as so often happens when you think you’ve got everything figured out, everything changes.

We have a girlfriend.

I never expected for us to have a girlfriend. We are absolutely not that couple who opened up in order to find their perfect unicorn and live happily ever after as a threesome.

I have my local lovers and some wonderful long distance partners scattered across the continent, a couple of whom I’d give the label boyfriend if we lived close enough to date. There are several female friends I’m extremely fond of and enjoy doing the dirty sex with. 

But I definitely did not expect to have a girlfriend — and especially not to have a girlfriend with Flick.

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