It’s not always going to be easy to find the right time to have sex when you’ve got a busy household.
And also, the good thing about sneaky sex is that it can be more arousing than the regular kind.
Sexologist Megan Stubbs explained to Well and Good : “There’s a novelty to it, it’s taking you out of the norm.
“And when you try something new, you’re creating new pathways, new memories in the brain.”
Jess O’Reilly, a sexologist, added: “Some of the folks I work with find that having kids, roommates, or parents in the house forces them to find new ways to express themselves sexually and this includes sex that is slower, more sensual, and of course, sneakier.”
Here are four ways to have sneakier sex…
1. Shower sex
Of course there are some risks when it comes to shower sex so don’t forget to be careful.
Jess added: “You’ve got a lock on the door and the sound of the water can help to drown out distractions.
“The physical sensuality of water can also enhance the experience.”
2. In the wardrobe
This is another great way to enjoy a kinky sex session because if you’re hidden away then it’s most definitely sneaky.
Megan explained how you can initiate the topic to your partner if you’ve never tried wardrobe sex before.
She said: “Spontaneously ask your partner like, ‘Hey, do you want to step into the closet and get it on for a little bit?’”
3. Loud headboards
Of course making noise from the headboard can be a real deal breaker if you’re trying to be sneaky about things.
Jess said that the slower the kinky session is, the more mindful of the thrilling experience you become.
She also advised to try extending your breath to slow down, adding: “The benefits can include more intense and multiple orgasms as well as a quieter ride.”
4. Muting the noise
Muffling the sound is perfect if you’re hoping to unleash your wild side in the bedroom and try BDSM.
Jess suggests getting very kinky and using a soft, cloth gag or even putting a pillow over their head when they’re orgasming.
She continued: “Or insist that your lover remains perfectly silent if you want to continue to please them.”