Ever go on a date with a guy and it goes so well that you think, “This is it. He’s the one. Is he serious about me”?

Turns out, you’re not “the one” to him. He’s not even looking for “the one”; he’s just looking for a casual hookup with no commitment.

You wish you knew this before you agreed to a second, third, and fourth date, plus an introduction to your friends and your three cats. So how can you avoid this type of guy?

Women’s Health Magazine gives us 5 ways to determine whether or not he’s serious about you:

1. He’s not in a rush to spend time with you.

According to psychologist and dating coach Jennifer B. Rhodes, a guy who seems too eager to spend time with you may be more interested in hooking up than hanging out. And when he loses interest, you can bet you’ll never see or hear from him again.

A guy who’s genuinely interested in you will take his time, and be respectful of your time and availability.

To determine which one he is, Rhodes says that if he reaches out to you too early, ask him to wait and see if he does, or runs the other way.

RELATED: 10 Questions To Ask A Guy To See What His Intentions Are (And Know If He’s Committed)

2. He texts and calls back within a day.

An interested guy will respond to your texts within 24 hours, and if you ask him to call you, he will, says Rhodes. If he takes longer than 3 days, he may only be looking for something more casual, not a commitment.



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