A hairdresser has revealed how she always initiates sex with a new lover – because it saves time.
Dawn, from Essex, meets her lovers on IllicitEncounters, the UK’s leading affairs site, which she joined five years ago.
She began using the site when her own marriage was in trouble, but now she’s meeting fellas on there.
And now the 36-year-old claims men like the fact that she is not afraid to make the first move.
She said: “I have a high sex drive and my attitude when it comes to sex has always been ‘if it feels right then, do it’.
“I sleep with 80% of men I date the first time I go out with them. I can tell within five minutes whether we are going to have sex.”
She continued: “I am just very straight with them and the most common way that I initiate sex is with a simple question.”
Dawn first started using the website when she started to see the cracks in her marriage.
The hairdresser added: “I married when I was 21 and hadn’t properly played the field.
“I only slept with three men before I met my husband at 18 and we should have enjoyed ourselves for longer before settling down.
“By the time I got to 30, I was ready for an affair and a friend of mine who was also married was cheating on her husband on the site.”
Speaking about the time she met a fella who lived near her, Dawn detailed: “We had been flirting on text before the date.
“I suggested we go back to his place about an hour into the date. It felt right.
“I have had lots of affairs on the site since then and finally divorced my husband two years ago.
“If I fancy my date, I always end up making the first move. It just saves time. We both know we want sex, so why hang around?”
Dawn was speaking about the ten most popular ways that men and women initiate sex.
Men prefer popping the cheeky question “fancy a quickie?”, while women tend to give their partner a long lingering kiss.
Jessica Leoni, IllicitEncounters’ sex and relationship expert, said: “Men and women use different tactics to initiate sex.
“Women having affairs are slightly more likely as men to initiate sex the first time.
“I think it’s because women primarily have affairs because they are highly sexed and want the excitement of sleeping with someone.
“Whereas lots of men are looking for a more emotional connection as well as sex.”