Many people can often have trust issues when it comes to their partner.

And it seems like woman’s cheating worries were so extreme she used an unusual method to put her boyfriend to the test.

The woman took to Reddit to confess that she asked her friend to seduce her boyfriend to see if he’d cheat in a honey trap scenario.

And she asked if she was “manipulative” for doing so.

Talking to Reddit, the woman wrote: “My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. I asked my friend, Nancy, to seduce my boyfriend, Sam, to see if he’d cheat or not.



Woman annoyed as her boyfriend flirts with another woman
She asked her friend to seduce her boyfriend to see if he’d go for it

“I have always had severe trust issues, which Sam is aware of. Even though I couldn’t bring myself to trust him, I never tried to control him or force him into cutting off his friends or anything.

“I’ve kept my trust issues to myself and I don’t share my doubts with Sam. The last time I told him that I can’t bring myself to trust him, he got very upset, and I didn’t want to upset him even more, which led me to just live with the constant feeling of worry and doubt. I have tried my best to develop trust, but I just can’t do it for the life of me.”

She continued: “Last week, I asked Nancy if she could do it. Flirt with him and see his reaction. Nancy agreed and went ahead with it at a party I didn’t attend purposefully.

“Sam wasn’t aware that Nancy is my friend. He said that he thought that Nancy was the sister of one of my friends and that we didn’t talk to each other.

“Well, she did her thing, and Sam invited her back to his apartment. When Nancy mentioned me, he told her that I don’t need to know, and that he’ll take care of it somehow. She went with him and according to her, they both had a drink. He tried to make a move on her, so she made some excuse and left for the night.”



Couple having an argument
Her boyfriend slammed her over the move

The woman said Nancy called her up the next morning and although she thought she’d feel upset, she just felt relieved.

“For the first time, I didn’t feel so paranoid and crazy, I felt as if I had been proven right for the first time,” she said.

The woman met up with Sam and told him everything as she said he “denied everything” at first before eventually admitting it.

She continued: “He then started yelling at me that what I did was manipulative and disgusting.

“I told him that I never manipulated him. I never forced him into anything, I didn’t influence his behaviour, I never made him do anything. I just put him in a situation that he will encounter some day. He had a clear choice, and he made a choice to cheat. If not with Nancy, he would have cheated on me with some other woman.

“It made him shut up for a while, but now he’s been telling everyone about the whole thing. Some people are siding with me, some with him. It’s 50/50.”

Asking for advice, she said: “I need someone to tell me if I’m the bad guy here, and I’d appreciate an explanation along with it because I can’t wrap my head around it. I’m open to all opinions and criticisms, and I’d appreciate if you refrain from making hateful comments. Thank you in advance.”

Many people warned the woman that her set-up was “manipulative”, despite the fact her boyfriend did try and cheat.

One wrote: “If you honestly can’t see how this is manipulative, and you decide to continue testing your future boyfriends, you stand a good chance of losing any of the guys that pass the test if/when they find out.

“If any GF of mine setup a test like this, I’d easily pass it – but the second I learned that she was behind it, I would dump her ass.”

While another added: “You should see a therapist and he’s a cheating pr**k. Both things can be true.”

A third chimed in: “If you don’t trust your bf, just break up instead of doing this manipulative ass “testing”. Also get therapy, cause this is just too much.”

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